Last evening I did a gorgeous, intimate ceremony at Angel Orensanz. Because only immediate family was in attendance, Jung Lee http://www.feteny.com/ filled the space with hundreds of votive candles so that the entire room glittered. She also brought in a beautiful black baby grand for me to play Chopin & Debussy for this quirky & sublimely elegant European couple.
It's a fantastic & magical space, but you will definately need a great designer/planner.
http://www.orensanzevents.com/